A seemingly ordinary high school volleyball game on September 1, 2022, irrevocably altered our family's trajectory. My daughter, Payton, suffered a severe head and neck injury after being hit by a spike from a biological male competing on the opposing team. This incident resulted in a traumatic brain injury, partial paralysis, and the loss of her speech and clear vision.

Knowing the male athlete would be playing, we questioned the school's decision but didn't fully grasp the potential danger. The aftermath was a whirlwind of emotions as Payton, once independent and capable, became reliant on full-time care. She struggled with basic cognitive functions, endured constant pain, and grappled with the loss of her dreams, including her aspiration to play college softball.

With medical guidance, Payton's gradual return to sports, albeit with limitations, proved therapeutic. Despite the pain and challenges, rejoining her basketball and softball teams provided a sense of purpose and resilience. Witnessing her struggle and determination underscored the profound impact of the injury.

Payton's experience compelled us to advocate for change. Her testimony before the North Carolina General Assembly played a pivotal role in passing the Fairness in Women’s Sports Act, a law prohibiting biological males from competing in girls' sports. However, the fight continues as many states still permit this practice, jeopardizing the safety and well-being of female athletes.

I urge parents to be proactive. Don't wait for a similar tragedy to strike your family. Challenge these policies, communicate with coaches and school officials, and demand action from your representatives. Payton's journey, while marked by hardship, has also revealed her strength and resilience. She has transformed into a vocal advocate for fairness and safety in women's sports. Though facing lifelong complications from her injury, her story serves as a powerful call to action.